Editor’s Note: This essay is part of an ongoing Gritletter series analyzing Winning Through Intimidation by Robert J. Ringer, with modern context on posture, systems, and execution.

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The only thing Ringer knew would not change was his desire to collect a commission.

Everything else was variable.

The seller’s urgency could shift.
The buyer’s enthusiasm could fade.
Circumstances could change without warning.

So he refused to fiddle.

He did not argue about responsibility. He absorbed it. He did not wait for answers. He went and found them. He did not rely on other people’s priorities. He relied on his own.

That clarity shaped everything.

The Fiddle Theory is not about impatience. It is about realism. Time is never neutral. Time works against deals. Every delay introduces risk. Momentum fades. Alignment weakens. What feels promising today quietly decays tomorrow.

Ringer understood that if he did not move relentlessly forward, someone else’s hesitation would eventually undo the deal.

He approached execution like the tortoise, not the hare. Slow. Steady. Uninterrupted. If he could arrive an hour earlier, a day earlier, or a week earlier, that margin could decide whether the deal lived or died.

That is why he took on as much responsibility as possible.

Not out of generosity.
Out of control.

He answered questions quickly. He gathered information himself. He reduced handoffs. He removed friction. And each time he did, he reminded the buyer that every unanswered question could be resolved in one visit, in one meeting, in one inspection.

Speed was not pressure.
Speed was protection.

Once the buyer committed to inspecting the property in person, Ringer knew he was approaching scoring territory. Serious buyers do not board planes casually. Movement signals intent.

But posture still mattered.

Whenever possible, he arranged to meet the buyer in advance, sometimes flying with him and reviewing deal details on the plane. That move served multiple purposes. It built rapport. It reinforced competence. It made his role unmistakable.

He was not hovering.
He was present.

At best, he hoped to build loyalty strong enough that the buyer would refuse to close if his commission were threatened. At worst, he aimed for something just as effective. Awareness. Discomfort. The quiet resistance people feel when they know something is wrong.

Presence changes behavior.

If he did not travel with the buyer, he met him at the gate. If the buyer moved, Ringer moved. Wherever the buyer went, Ringer was there. Prepared. Informed. Engaged.

And when he spoke, it carried weight.

Not because of charm or volume, but because he knew the details. Earlier in his career, Ringer had knowledge without posture. Now posture and performance were aligned.

Image power.
Legal power.
Execution power.

Together.

He wanted to know the deal so thoroughly that even the seller would feel embarrassed challenging his right to a commission. His objective was not dominance. It was inevitability.

Throughout this phase, one rule never changed. The buyer and seller were never together without him present.

No private conversations.
No unobserved moments.
No posture punctures.

Even at the end, he stayed.

He walked the buyer to the departure gate. He waited until the plane pushed back. If that meant missing his own flight and staying overnight, so be it. Only then did he step out of role.

That level of execution was not excess. It was necessity.

Because by that point, if questions were answered and structure was roughly agreed upon, Ringer had reached the opponent’s 20 yard line.

He could smell pay dirt.

But he was not celebrating.

Anyone who understands the game knows the last 20 yards are the hardest. That is where defenses tighten. That is where deals unravel. That is where execution either holds or collapses.

Chapter 12 is not about closing.
It is about earning the right to close.

And that principle extends far beyond real estate.

In the tech world, for example, outcomes are determined long before implementation. Readiness matters. Posture matters. Execution matters most.

That is why early clarity is so valuable. To reduce uncertainty. To prevent fiddling. To move decisively while conditions are still favorable.

Getting to the red zone is not luck.

It is execution.

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